The pain of loss is already unbearable, and when financial problems are added, the situation becomes even more complicated. Unfortunately, transporting remains from abroad is not only an emotional but also a significant financial burden that can reach several thousand euros. However, it is important to know that help options exist even in the most difficult situations.
Why does the transportation of remains cost so much?
First of all, it is necessary to understand why this service is so expensive. Transporting remains is a complex process that involves not only physical transit but also numerous formalities and special requirements.
The largest part of the price consists of the special preparation of the coffin for international transport – it must be hermetic and meet international standards. Separate permits for export and import are also required, which cost extra. If we are talking about air transport, the specific nature of the cargo requires special safety measures and documents.
Often families face unexpected expenses – for example, if the person died abroad, additional medical examinations or procedures might be required, which increase the total amount even further.
Support provided by the state and its limits
The Lithuanian state provides certain support in such situations, but it frequently does not cover all expenses. The Ministry of Social Security and Labour can grant a funeral allowance, but its size is limited and often does not even cover half of the actual expenses of transporting remains.
If the person died as a result of a work accident or an occupational disease, the situation is slightly better – in such cases, the state can cover a larger part of the expenses. However, it is necessary to prove that the death is truly related to work, which is not always simple.
It is important to apply to the social support department of the municipality – sometimes it is possible to obtain an additional one-off allowance, especially if the family is recognized as low-income. Each municipality has its own established criteria and capabilities, so it is worth inquiring locally.
Charity organizations and funds that can help
Several charity organizations operate in Lithuania that help in such situations. "Maisto bankas" sometimes organizes special fundraising campaigns for specific cases. The "Gelbėkit vaikus" fund also operates, which, although focused on helping children, sometimes assists families with children that have fallen into difficult situations.
The "Caritas" organization can also provide support – not only financial but also practical help with handling documents or searching for other sources of support. They have a good network and experience in such situations.
Lithuanian communities abroad also frequently organize fundraising campaigns. If your loved one died in a specific country, it is worth contacting the Lithuanian community operating there – people often respond and help their compatriots.
What you need to know when applying for help
When applying for help, be prepared to provide all the necessary information. You will need the death certificate, information about the family's financial situation, and a preliminary calculation of the cost of transporting the remains.
Do not hesitate to speak about your situation openly – charity organizations understand that this is a difficult time, and their goal is to help. Explain what amount you already have, how much is still missing, and whether there is an opportunity to borrow part of the sum.
It is important to apply as quickly as possible – some organizations have limited budgets and assistance is provided on a first-come, first-served basis. Furthermore, storing remains abroad also costs money, so delaying only increases the total amount.
Social networks and public assistance
Nowadays, social networks can become a powerful tool for help. In Facebook groups dedicated to Lithuanian communities, fundraisers are often organized. It is only important to do this transparently – provide all the necessary information, documents, and contacts.
The local press also sometimes helps – if you approach a local newspaper or radio station, they can announce your situation. People often want to help, they just do not know how to do it.
Churches and religious communities can also provide support. Even if you are not religious, many churches have charity funds dedicated to helping in difficult situations.
Alternative solutions and practical tips
Sometimes it is worth considering alternative solutions. For example, if transporting the remains from a distant country costs an unbearable amount, one can consider cremation on-site and returning the ashes – this costs significantly less.
It is also possible to negotiate with repatriation companies regarding payment in installments. Many companies understand the difficulties families face and can offer a payment schedule. Do not hide your financial difficulties – it is better to state immediately what your options are.
If your loved one died in a country with a large Lithuanian community, it is sometimes possible to arrange for burial there, and later, when the financial situation improves, transfer the remains to Lithuania.
When the heart is heavier than the wallet, but hope does not fade
Loss is never easy, and financial difficulties make it even more painful. However, it is important to remember that you are not alone – people and organizations exist that want to help. Sometimes help comes from the most unexpected sources.
Do not feel ashamed of asking for help. This is not a sign of weakness – it is humanity. Every one of us can find ourselves in a similar situation, and solidarity at such moments is what makes us human.
Start with official support channels – the municipality, state institutions. Then turn to charity organizations. Do not forget your relatives, friends, and community either. Often, a solution is found by combining several forms of help.
And remember – the fact that you cannot afford expensive ceremonies does not mean you loved your loved one less. Love is measured not in euros, but by the warmth of the heart, which remains with you regardless of the circumstances.
